Something is “Bad Wrong” in the White House

What is wrong with this man? In the face of a worldwide pandemic, that continues to ravage these United States, Donald Trump has turned his back on the coronavirus/Covid-19 crisis. Of course, he thinks it is a hoax that will “one day just magically go away.” Is that because it turns out that it affects blacks, Latinx, and native Americans at a greater rate than the majority population?

Trump also has turned his back on the police/public safety crisis across the country, reignited by the horrific May 31 Memorial Day murder of George Floyd. Trump has turned instead toward further dividing, frightening, and confusing the nation by painting the Black Lives Matter protestors as rioters and thugs and championing the traitorous confederacy and its statues and battle flag that are ubiquitous across the United States. He suggested that NASCAR driver Darrell “Bubba” Wallace should apologize for the noose found in his NASCAR garage as if it was Wallace’s fault that the noose was there.

I ask, again, what is wrong with Donald Trump? I know he is not finished yet, but for the moment I am, because at Mount Rushmore in the Black Hills of South Dakota – property stolen from the Sioux Nation – while the coronavirus was spiking in numerous states, Trump held a 7,000-person, no-mask rally at which there was no social distancing on July 4. There, in his dark, foreboding Independence Day speech, he said that “a left-wing cultural revolution. . . is determined to tear down every statue, symbol and memory of our national heritage.”

Except that the statues and symbols Trump is defending are those of the confederacy, a failed bunch of traitors who fought to keep my forbears enslaved and tear the United States asunder.  Their statues and symbols are certainly not my national heritage. As a matter of fact, I want to see them removed from every public place from the U.S. Capitol to the smallest little town square on the West coast. I am an American, and the symbols of the confederacy are not what I hold dear.

Now, Trump is insisting that children and teachers across the nation must return to their schools in August or lose whatever federal funding the schools receive. This demand and threat despite the coronavirus/Covid-19 spikes across the country.

Will somebody, please tell me What. Is Wrong. With. This. Man?

The Worst that Could Happen

We all thought the coronavirus-Covid-19 pandemic was the absolute worst thing that could happen, especially to African American people. But we were wrong.

On February 23, 2020, 25-year-old Ahmaud Arbery was murdered by a former policeman and his son near Brunswick, Georgia. Arbery was jogging and unarmed. Few outside of Brunswick knew about Arbery’s death until May when the alleged perpetrators were finally charged.

On March 13, 2020, Breonna Taylor, a 26-year-old, unarmed first responder was murdered in her own apartment by Louisville, Kentucky Metro Police who broke into her home with no warning.

Then on Monday, May 25, 2020 – Memorial Day – 46-year-old George Floyd was handcuffed and lynched. In public. In the light of day. On a Minneapolis, Minnesota, street. By a Minneapolis policeman . . . as three other police officers stood by watching. How do I know this? Because I saw the wrenching cellphone video of the episode that 17-year-old Darnella Frazier had the presence of mind to record and share.

How do you think these murders make me and my fellow African Americans feel? Because, lest you forget: we are Americans. More than anyone else, with our literal blood, sweat, strength, and amazing resilience, we built much of this country. It is ours as much or more than any other American’s. We supposedly have the same rights as everyone else; and I guess we do. Until we don’t.

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PLEASE: Stay Home, Stay Safe!

Dallas County, Texas’s shelter-in-place order in response to the coronavirus began on March 23 and was initially to stay in effect until April 3.  The order has now been extended to April 30.

I consider myself somewhat of a homebody, and I’m in a decluttering phase, so I need to be here doing that work. But it isn’t even Easter yet, so April 30 seems a long way off. I am sure that by taking a daily walk, focusing on my household projects, and watching my favorite TV shows with a little Netflix and Amazon Prime thrown in, I can make it through to April 30 without having a meltdown. But I’m worried that this stay at home business will extend through May, so I’m taking things one day at a time.

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The first week of shelter-in-place, the traffic in my neighborhood was normal, everyday coming and going. Judge Clay Jenkins and the County Commissioners have given us all a great help: No meetings of more than ten people can be held, and a six-foot distance between people must be observed; all businesses selling non-essential items are supposed to be closed; restaurants and bars can only sell carry-out food; and all that’s open now are the grocery stores which sometimes only have empty shelves where eggs and milk should be.

Now, during the day, car traffic is almost non-existent on the side street next to my house, but in the evening the traffic is heavy. Where are all these people going? Don’t they understand we are supposed to stay home?

Texas Governor Greg Abbott finally issued a state-wide shelter-in-place order back in March which includes the closure of all but essential businesses. Unfortunately, his attorney general, Ken Paxton, thinks gun stores are essential businesses. Despite that bizarre decision, there is hardly anywhere to go or any reason to get in one’s car and take to the road. I think – and hope – more and more of us are staying home, sheltering in place so we can stop this coronavirus.

Dr. Fauci and Dr. Birx have told us: the only things we can do to stop the spread of the coronavirus is

1) Physical (social) distancing, i.e., stay a six foot distance from each other,

2) wear a face mask on the occasions when you must leave home and be around other people, and

3) stay home unless it’s VITAL that you leave.

Let’s all do ALL of these things, please, because if the coronavirus hasn’t come to your city, suburb, town, or rural area . . .  yet, I’m afraid that all you have to do is wait.

It’s the holy season. Passover began last week, today is Easter, and Ramadan begins April 23. Enjoy your holiday celebrations, and please:

PLEASE: Stay Home and Stay Safe.

P.S. – Here’s a little tutorial about wearing face masks. They seem so simple, but using one actually is complicated!

$1.5 Trillion and Your Future Are on the Line, So Complete Your 2020 Census Now

The coronavirus has brought most of our worlds to a halt, but the 2020 U.S. Census is still going on now! While you’re working from home, and maybe homeschooling your children, you can also complete your 2020 Census questionnaire online, by phone, or by mail.

If you haven’t filled out your 2020 U.S. Census form, take a few minutes to do so right now. It will take you less than 10 minutes; I’ll wait.

What? You didn’t receive a Census invitation? They were mailed out in March. If you didn’t receive one, it’s okay. Go to and fill out your census form OR you can respond by telephone or mail.

The 2020 Census will count everyone living in the United States and its five territories (Puerto Rico, American Samoa, the Commonwealth of the Northern Mariana Islands, Guam, and the U.S. Virgin Islands).

Your participation in the census is critical because the census results will impact us for the next 10 years. The Census will

  • impact Federal funding for things like Medicare and Medicaid, SNAP, and CHIP;  
  • determine your state’s number of seats in the House of Representatives;
  • Impact educational funding in your city, state, and region; and
  • influence important business decisions such as where to create economic and employment opportunities, where to open new locations and hire additional employees in your neighborhood.

Participating in the census is important for everyone, and it is especially important that black, African American, LatinX, and brown people fill out their household’s census form so we don’t get under counted and so that monies flow to neighborhoods of color as well as to majority ones.

Please fill out and submit your household’s 2020 Census form.

A Theory about Covid-19

I think Nature is trying to cull humanity. The 7.7 billion people on earth may have exceeded the earth’s carrying capacity. Every ecosystem has a carrying capacity, the number of fauna it can sustain. We are among the earth’s fauna.

The Plague and the Spanish Flu are previous examples of Nature culling humanity. The Plague, a 14th century pandemic, is estimated to have killed 25 million people in the known world, somewhere between 30 and 60 percent of Europe’s population. The 1918 Influenza pandemic known as the Spanish Flu wiped out about 675,000 Americans, 50 million people worldwide.

Now, the novel coronavirus which causes Covid-19 is on the scene, and fortunately, we know more about viruses now than we did 100 years ago. The coronavirus, which came out of nowhere with a vengeance and seemed to appear everywhere at once, is a version of a virus already known to scientists. What with social distancing, social isolation, and modern medical protocols, I doubt that the death toll will be as high as it was 100 years ago. Nature may not be able to make a sizable dent in humanity with this coronavirus. I certainly hope not.

I’ll have more to say about Covid-19 as we continue to isolate ourselves from one another and hole up in our homes waiting for leadership from the president that is obviously not forthcoming.

What are your thoughts about the coronavirus and the situation we find ourselves in now?

A Book Worth Exploring

Dr. Jennifer Wimbish is president emeritus of Cedar Valley College of the Dallas Community College District.

Dr. Jennifer Wimbish’s recent book, Leadership Wisdom for All Generations: Unique Insights from Authentic Leaders is a distinctive and engaging read.

It is first a memoir that takes readers through Wimbish’s childhood and youth in segregated Port Lavaca, Texas; her college years at a historically black college; and into her exemplary decades-long career as a community college educator and president. Additionally, this book is a leadership guide, and workbook. Wimbish’s approach is unusual in that she has combined her memoir with teaching tools. There’s even a section explaining how the book can be used.

Each chapter is followed by a section called “Lessons Learned from [chapter title]” and another called “Echoes from [chapter title]” in which she reiterates life lessons and leadership wisdom. There are 48 lessons packed into nine chapters and just over 200 pages.

Wimbish dedicates her book to her mentors, the “authentic leaders “of the subtitle, but I found it surprising that, with only one exception, she does not identify these leaders in her text along with the wisdom they imparted to her. If you are familiar with her life and career, you can intuit what wisdom came from whom, but if not, it remains a mystery.

Jennifer Wimbish is a deeply religious woman, and that is evident in Leadership Wisdom for All Generations. She knows her Bible and is very comfortable citing scripture, seeking wisdom from God, and  encouraging readers to seek God’s guidance.

Leadership Wisdom for All Generations is aimed at a multigenerational audience. Wimbish is passionate about the need for history and knowledge sharing between the generations. Parents and teens can read this book together and young professionals can learn from it at the same time that older generations can glean ideas to pass along to younger ones. It is currently being used in high school and university classes to teach students leadership skills, another of Wimbish’s life-long passions.

Some things in Leadership Wisdom for All Generations: Unique Insights from Authentic Leaders, may seem familiar, but there are historical and leadership nuggets that you may find revelatory; and of course, Dr. Wimbish’s memoir will provide insights, no matter your age and knowledge base. This is a book that is worth exploring, and I recommend it.

 Wimbish, Jennifer. Leadership Wisdom for All Generations: Unique Insights from Authentic Leaders. 2018. 208 pp. ISBNs: 978-1-64184-957-9, hardcover; 978-64184-958-6;, paperback; 978-1-64184-9593, ebook.

Use Less STUFF!

I have too much stuff. I have too much stuff that I don’t even need. I have so much stuff that I can’t keep up with it all. And a stuff problem can morph into a clutter problem. That’s what too much stuff has done at my house. I’m sad to say, I threw away over two dozen canned goods today whose expiration dates had passed, not by just four or six months (I kept those), but by as much as 12 years! I had lost sight of their existence in my cabinets. I’m sure there’s more stuff that is hiding in plain sight – or in boxes – in my home.

If you’re noticing stuff/clutter building up in your home, beware. Living with clutter is not sustainable. Collecting clutter is like gaining unwanted weight. One day, you look up and it’s there; and it’s much harder to get rid of clutter than it is to let it into the house. A trinket or book here, a magazine subscription or new piece of clothing there, three-for-the-price-of-one items at the grocery on sale, and you may end of with more stuff than you need to live your life. I have a button in my kitchen that reminds me to “Use Less Stuff.” It is my new motto.

I am in the process of decluttering as all my friends and family can tell you. It’s an ongoing, and I fear, never-ending project. I’m working on both the stuff and the clutter problems simultaneously, because they are really just one big problem.

I have too much stuff. Do you?

Dallas’s ADL Walk against Hate 15 Sept.

On 15 September, the Anti-Defamation League‘s Inaugural Dallas Walk against Hate will take place. I am walking and I even have a fundraising page to which you can donate toward my fundraising goal of $150. Put this link in your browser to get to my page: I will appreciate any size donation to help meet (or exceed!) my $150 goal. Thank you in advance.

Thank you to everyone who contributed to my ADL fundraiser. The raised $200 for ADL!

Beyond Sad

Two mass murder events in one weekend. It is beyond sad. And most of us are befuddled by them. We don’t know what to do, but as the crowd shouted in Dayton on Sunday afternoon, someone needs to “Do something!”

One thing the news media and the rest of us can do is call these horrendous events what they are: mass murders. I think calling them other than what they are contributes to the complacency everyone seems to be experiencing.

I must admit, I don’t know what to do, either. Except write; write for this blog; write to my legislators; and write to myself, trying to fiure out what else I can do to actually make a difference.

The ministers of the Washington National Cathedral asked, “Have we no decency?” They were referring in part to the fact that Donald Trump still is in office. But we must ask it of ourselves as well. What will get us off our duffs and into the streets in protest of the gun violence that is a daily part of the news cycle. Apparently we haven’t hit the tipping point, the critical mass that pushes us out of our comfort zones.

The activists, the ones who do get out of their comfort zones, the ones who do something are the gun violence survivors and the families of gun violence victims. As a Moms Demand Action for Gun Sense and Everytown for Gun Safety volunteer and supporter, I’ve met survivors and parents of gun violence victims. They are passionate because they have experienced gun violence first-hand.

My fear is that many more people will be murdered en masse before we rise up en masse and insist that the Congress pass legislation against assault weapons and extended/high capacity magazines.

People scream about the second amendment, but the fact is that no civilian needs an assault rifle; no civilian needs to fire scores of bullets in seconds; and no civilian needs an arsenal in his man cave. Let’s stop it from happening. Let’s write our legislators, let’s join and send money to organizations that are doing something. Let’s help stop gun violence. That’s what we can do.


For Your Viewing Pleasure and Edification

Toni Morrison: The Pieces I Am and True Justice: Bryan Stevenson’s Fight for Equality are two documentaries currently on screens across the country, and you won’t want to miss either one. These films place the spotlight on two critically important African-American thinkers.

Toni Morrison: The Pieces I Am, in theaters, is an introduction or reintroduction to the Pulitzer and Nobel Prize-winning author Toni Morrison. True Justice, free on HBO through much of July, familiarizes the audience with attorney Bryan Stevenson and his groundbreaking work as founder of the the Equal Justice Initiative (EJI), Legacy Museum, and National Memorial for Peace and Justice, all in Montgomery AL.

Both films provide wonderful historical context reaching all the way back to antebellum times. Neither subject is “sanitized” for the audience. For the most part Stevenson tells his own story, and a wonderful storyteller he is. As you would suspect, Morrison is a wonderful narrator of her story as well, although we don’t hear her voice as much in The Pieces I Am as we get to hear Stevenson’s in True Justice.

Run, don’t walk to your nearest art house to see Toni Morrison: The Pieces I Am. There’s no telling how long it will be in theaters. And if you’re not an HBO subscriber, see True Justice: Bryan Stevenson’s Fight for Equality before the free period expires.

Even if you don’t consider yourself a documentary person, see these two. They are  riveting, powerful, and simply not to be missed especially if you value African-American history and culture.